ORDAINED LEGAL INSTITUTION

Marriage is an institution ordained by God for the purpose of companionship, communication and procreation for a sustainable future.

Individuals do not just get started by getting married.

Communication which Stems from a level of friendship vent  into or established from a union of two on a platonic friendship level to keep them communicating with one another
develops into a mutual consent as time permits..

The understanding of the communication mode between the two individuals leads them to the tieing of the nuptial nut.

Beauty, Character, Moral, Integrity, Behaviour, Attitude is one of the essential elements which premediated into a future living.Individuals put in more effort during this stage to stay attractive, focused, enticing and of good moral and conduct.

After much metamorphosis, they gradually get entwined and inseparable from each other and plan to formalise as well as legalise the union for a brighter future with huge prospect for a pensionable future.
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Legacy living sets in which becomes an herculean task that could marr the relationship  at a certain stage of the union for a longer period

The procreàtion period thereby sets in and greed comes along the line as one individual or party is not willing to let go off certain traits or condition while one party or individual wish to demonstrate the union by being on the hedge controlling the affairs and not suppressing to the other individuals level

Activities on a daily basis takes the better part of most individuals and one individual becomes the boss by giving directives without considering the impact of the after effect from the other party’s point of view.

Inability to keep their formal life standard while courting leads them into atrocities which should not be committed in the vow of  ” Till Death do us part”.

Individuals tend to do it on the part of social interference just to keep their status and ego moving and getting lots of likes and likeables from the outside world

On the outside, the union appears to be the best with the glamour, reactions, social effect that permits them to be seen together by the world.

The inside  is not rossy as most individuals tend not to see the struggle, disbelief,  dis – communication, hurt, interest e.t.c that goes on within.

The perfect union cannot be assessed as there isn’t one  without conflict, crisis, setback, or distrust.

The head of the house will easily be
determined by the controlling power which he/ she exhibits both inwardly and outwardly.

The after effect of the union is lack of trust, infidelity, lack of submission, neglect which in turn greatly affects the immediate family as everyone tend to be his or her own boss. Lm

The pandemic has been able to reveal the other side of every human in the facet of life with lots of unknown attitudes and characters exhibited with due caution and control.

Rate of divorce has thus been up by quite a number of factors as individuals are seeing the real side of themselves from the after effect of tearing apart from the hustling and bustling of a vibrant economy.